LEARN WHAT IT MEANS TO SERVE

Accountability - Guidance - Connection

New to BDSM? Not sure where to start, or feel that a one-off session is too impersonal to fully unravel your deepest desires?

Discover what it means to be truly submissive

They say it takes 90 days to form a habit.

I say it takes 84 to form a submissive.

If you have been stuck on the edge of exploration because:

  • You couldn’t find a Domme who would take a chance on you

  • You needed an ongoing connection before you can entrust your submission to someone

  • You want to learn what it means to be truly submissive

  • You want to explore more than is possible in the confines of a single session

  • You are too nervous to approach anyone

  • You don’t know where to start

You were the reason I designed SERVE – a training program specifically for submissives.

This is a program of self-discovery, guiding you to understand the drive behind your desires and teaching you how to find and build fulfilling dynamics. Over 3 months, I will guide you through My 6 Ps of submission – the essential elements to being a well-rounded and desired submissive. You will receive ongoing feedback and a ‘report’ at the end of your training that highlights your strongest qualities, and be given additional materials throughout the training to support you in your growth and exploration.

Graduates have used this as a container for growth more broadly, finding the external accountability and discipline of the program to be highly motivational for achieving personal goals.

COMMENCING APRIL 2026 - Applications for the next round of training are now open.

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THE TRAINING

The redesigned SERVE training program consists of three training modules, each designed around 2 of the 6 Ps of submission.

These modules are offered as group workshops and 1:1 training sessions.

Module 1: Preparation & Purpose

Explore vetting, safety, and self-collaring. Learn how to prepare yourself mentally, physically and emotionally for service. Explore the difference between tops/ bottoms and Dominants/ submissives.

Begin your exploration with guided journal prompts and questionnaires that unpack your desires and the drive behind them. In session explore the basics of slave training, protocol, bondage and more.

Module 2: Pain & Pleasure

Explore processing, neurochemistry and your relationship to pain. Discover sensation, touch and contrast as we deepen your relationship to your body and your desires.

Module 3: Power & Protocol

Deepen your understanding of power exchange, dynamics and the use of psychology. Exploring hypnosis, conditioning, mind fuckery and the beauty of deep and devoted service.

For the dedicated & ready

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This program is for those who:

Crave a life filled with purpose, direction and service.

Are ready to discover the joy, power & truth in submission

Seek to turn their deepest fantasies into reality

Explore yourself, learn the truth of submission, and design your dream lifestyle arrangement. Find power in surrender, balance and truth.

Become the submissive you know you were born to be 

FAQs

  • Submission is a complex, layered process of power exchange that requires an understanding of yourself, your Dominant and the foundations of D/s dynamics.

    The 6 Ps of submission are My pillars to fulfilling submission -

    Preparation - readiness of mind, body, and resources as well as a deep understanding of risk & desire

    Purpose - realising the true drivers behind your submission, and the style of Dominance that best aligns

    Protocol - the rituals, rules and respect in dynamics, and the different subcultures which have shaped this

    Pain - how to process it, how to use it and the catharsis of surrender

    Pleasure - giving and receiving touch, and the exploration of intimacy, energy and intentionality.

    Power - the psychology of submission, edge play and transformation.

  • The level of inclusions depends on the option you opt for. If you commit to undertaking all of the 1:1 training, you will have access to:

    • Goal setting, and a custom training plan

    • 3 in-person sessions with me over a period of three months in a boutique private dungeon (Southbank, Melbourne)

    • Exposure to lifestyle D/s and how it feels to serve in a continuous capacity

    • Fortnightly emails on the core topics

    • Bi-weekly check-ins (15mins phone or text)

    • Tasks, challenges and opportunities between sessions

    • An experience of the 6 Ps of submission in depth

    • Exposure to all of the basics skills required to stand out as a submissive

    • References and recommendations to other kink events, educators and parties

    • Connections to lifestyle players, community members, peers and vetted Dominants seeking submissives

    • Ongoing guidance and support, and the opportunity to explore your deepest desires in an environment of trust and empowerment

    • Connection to community, access to events and experiences

  • In short, no. I do not allow private/ lifestyle service from anyone who hasn’t completed the program.

    Completion of the training program is a prerequisite to serving Me in a lifestyle/ private capacity, with ongoing arrangements negotiated on completion. For those who wish to serve other Mistresses at the conclusion of their training, I will gladly offer you a reference and connect you with lifestyle Dommes who may be a suitable match.

    I will always consider one-off studio sessions - provided they are requested respectfully, and align with my interests.

  • Absolutely not. The 6 Ps of submission have been tried and tested through experience and exploration with a diverse range of submissive play partners. I session with all genders, bodies and sexualities.

    Devotion has no gender.

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