LEARN WHAT IT MEANS TO SERVE

Accountability - Guidance - Connection

New to BDSM? Not sure where to start, or feel that a one-off session is too impersonal to fully unravel your deepest desires?

Discover what it means to be truly submissive

They say it takes 90 days to form a habit.

I say it takes 84 to form a submissive.

If you have been stuck on the edge of exploration because:

  • You couldn’t find a Domme who would take a chance on you

  • You needed an ongoing connection before you can entrust your submission to someone

  • You want to learn what it means to be truly submissive

  • You want to explore more than is possible in the confines of a single session

  • You are too nervous to approach anyone

  • You don’t know where to start

You were the reason I designed SERVE – a training program specifically for submissives.

Over 12-weeks, I will guide you through my 6 Ps of submission – the essential elements to being a well-rounded and desired submissive. Successful graduates will either be invited to continue service, or to receive a strong reference and be connected with potential Dominants seeking vetted submissives.

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To express interest in the submissive focussed workshops I will be facilitating in 2026, contact Me via email lucyfleurx@gmail.com

For the dedicated & ready

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This program is for those who:

Are serious about actually finding a Mistress.

Crave a life filled with purpose, direction and service.

Are ready to discover the joy, power & truth in submission

Seek to turn their deepest fantasies into reality

3-months of my attention, and your development, to explore yourself, learn the truth of submission, and design your dream lifestyle arrangement.

Set yourself up to either serve me, or take your new skills into the lifestyle scene. Prove your dedication to me, or learn what it takes to stand out to your dream Domme.

Become the submissive you know you were born to be 

FAQs

  • Submission is a complex, layered process of power exchange that requires an understanding of yourself, your Dominant and the foundations of D/s dynamics.

    The 6 Ps of submission are my pillars to fulfilling submission -

    Preparation - readiness of mind, body, and resources as well as a deep understanding of risk & desire

    Purpose - realising the true drivers behind your submission, and the style of Dominance that best aligns

    Protocol - the rituals, rules and respect in dynamics, and the different subcultures which have shaped this

    Pain - how to process it, how to use it and the catharsis of surrender

    Pleasure - giving and receiving touch, and the exploration of intimacy, energy and intentionality.

    Power - the psychology of submission, edge play and transformation.

    • Goal setting, and a custom training plan

    • Fortnightly in-person sessions with me in a boutique private dungeon (Southbank, Melbourne)

    • Exposure to lifestyle D/s and how it feels to serve in a continuous capacity

    • Daily morning check-in texts

    • Weekly emails on the core topics

    • Bi-weekly extended check-ins (15mins phone or text)

    • Tasks, challenges and opportunities between sessions

    • An experience of the 6 Ps of submission in depth

    • Exposure to all of the basics skills required to stand out as a submissive

    • References and recommendations to other kink events, educators and parties

    • Connections to lifestyle players, community members, peers and vetted Dominants seeking submissives

    • Ongoing guidance and support, and the opportunity to explore your deepest desires in an environment of trust and empowerment

    Throughout your training you may also be invited to accompany Domina Lucy and her friends to events and parties and/ or serve in additional capacities (e.g. as a training bottom, cleaning support etc.).

  • In short, no. I do not allow private/ lifestyle service from anyone who hasn’t completed the program.

    Completion of the training program is a prerequisite to serving me in a lifestyle/ private capacity, with ongoing arrangements negotiated on completion. For those who wish to serve other Mistresses at the conclusion of their training, I will gladly offer you a reference and connect you with lifestyle Dommes who may be a suitable match.

    I will always consider one-off studio sessions - provided they are requested respectfully, and align with my interests.

  • Absolutely not. The 6 Ps of submission have been tried and tested through experience and exploration with a diverse range of submissive play partners. I session with all genders, bodies and sexualities.

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